Wednesday, September 14, 2011

My cousin is 25 years old and has changed careers in college a lot of times, how can I help her?

She has been in several colleges and wants to go to work in Spain to get enough money to pay her studies overseas, the classes she has passed, she has cheated in all of them (don't know how she hasn't been caught). Besides that, she wants to go to the city where her boyfriend is living, in her actual college, she flunked all her classes this period because she went to his boyfriends house and her parents don't know what to do? HOW CAN I HELP HER?My cousin is 25 years old and has changed careers in college a lot of times, how can I help her?
It sounds like she's not passionate enough about anything (except maybe her b/f) to stick to it right now. That's not at all unusual for someone in her 20's. It might be good idea fro her to take some time off to explore the world and mature a little bit. If she really wants to finish, she will. If she doesn't, it's not worth trying to force her. Also perhaps she has some ADHD or personality problems that are making it harder for focus and cope with school? She should see a counselor.My cousin is 25 years old and has changed careers in college a lot of times, how can I help her?
Tell her to pick a degree program, complete the program, and graduate. Then tell her to get out and start making money so she can pay off her loans and hopefully start having some fun.



Having a hundred degrees won't get you a high paying job. Most of the time, it just gets you the interview.

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